Self Love
Friday, March 30, 2012 | 4:38:00 PM | 0 comments
Too often are we making the mistakes that propel us right into heartbreak, and I’d love for you guys to stay happy, positive, and respectful of yourselves! You’re all beautiful, and if YOU don’t believe it, no one else will. So here’s a tip for now:Never let a guy make you feel bad about yourself. If you’re allowing a guy (or any friends, rumors, drama, etc) to determine who you are, your self worth, how you feel, and how you look, then honestly, you should take a reality check. Most likely, young girls are insecure and look to guys to fill that void that they are missing. However, this is not the way to do it!
It isn’t a guys job to make you happy! You don’t get into a relationship to make you feel better about yourself! A relationship should compliment the beautiful, mature, respectful person that you ALREADY are, and too many of us are failing to realize this.
YOU must first master self love before any relationship can be happy and healthy! So think about that. If you’re saying you “feel ugly” or “feel worthless” because of a breakup, a guy doesn't like you, a guy is talking to his ex. Then perhaps this is a red flag that you need to take a look within yourself.
A relationship is a place that you go in order to give, not to take.