Do NOT rush into relationships.
Take your time, know who you are, who the person is, and make sure a relationship is what you both want to do.

Do NOT get into a relationship just because it’s something to do.
Well unless you’re just eager for all the heartbreak, drama, and such.
I think that this is one of the most idiotic things that people can do;-
Getting into relationship after relationship, just because. I don’t understand.

You’re 12. You’re 14. Or fucking younger than 12. You don’t even fucking know who you are yet you’re running around trying to figure out how you can get him to notice you.
Just remember, everything you do, every heartbreak, and every lie that’s behind a premature relationship has an impact on both you and him. And all those little things really show as you get older and meet new people.

Do NOT use a relationship to boost up yourself confidence: it won’t fucking work.  Eventually you’ll have to learn how to love yourself before any of your relationships could truly work. You can’t experience true happiness with someone else if your own shit isn’t together. Besides, it’s emotionally draining for the person you’re in a relationship with.

I have a friend. She'd spent the last two years of her life being single, working on herself, building her confidence, getting closer to God, and finding true happiness. Now she is finally ready to be the best person she can be. And it took time. A lot of time. Time she couldn’t have used being in and out of relationships.
She just sees all these people in and out of relationships wondering why they aren’t working, and she sees a lot of people saying “I want a boyfriend” “I want a girlfriend”

It's because, there’s a lot of people who ask me for advice and wonder why things are going wrong. You can’t make a relationship work if you aren’t ready, you’re immature, you’re not completely happy with yourself, nor if you don’t even know who you are or have your own life together yet. You just cant. And you fucking won’t be in one if it isn’t your time. Just stop chasing after things.
God will give you the relationship you need when it’s your time.
All you need to do now is:
1. Calm down;
2. Breathe;
3. Live.


Stay tuned for my next post.
xx





Remember,
Rush relationships never end well.
Please remember that.
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